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Mind….A blessing or a Curse

The mind is the most mysterious thing in the world, people want their children to have a good IQ, but couldn’t find a solution for their overthinking. Good IQ will ultimately mean that your thought process is good, and you will have numerous thoughts…Now it just depends on how you manage them. That will decide whether it’s a blessing or a Curse.

There is nothing like suicide, your thoughts kill you if they become unmanageable, I would not say uncontrollable because thoughts are always uncontrollable. You can not force thought to get off from your mind… You can only manage it, and you can decide what to do with it…

And if you find the way to direct your mind the way you want, it’s a blessing. It will do miracles for you, it will take you to the heights you have never imagined.

And I personally think, that our focus should be on happiness then IQs. We can teach our children to be happy, to be simple, to be thankful of what we have…and it does not mean we should not give them the liberty to think and live the life they want… In fact, we should motivate them to choose their own path…

But we just have to make them understand life is not just about achievements and goals, it’s also about living every small moment…

So whether your IQ is good or bad, whether you think too much or not you just have to figure out what thoughts should be cultivated and how to make the unnecessary ones inefficient. Because every thought is going to stay there…

Tera sàath

Ek dua bas tera saath ho, mere hathon me bas tera haath ho…

Rahon me pathaar ho na ho, thamne ko bas tu saath ho…

Jungle ki sair ho, ya pani me paiir ho , upar khula asman ho , ya barish me der ho…

Kuch ho na ho , tera saath zaroor ho…

Apas me bair ho, nok jhok b yar ho… Jhagde hazar ho , ya batoon me pyar ho…

Kuch Palo ka dushman bhi tu hi ho , par tu hi mera yaar ho…

Kuch ho na ho, tera saath zaroor ho…

The Golden Temple – NITJ

It was 1 a.m. I don’t know, why always crazy ideas strike at this time. And it was the same discussion again.

Nag : Yar dimaag kharaab ho gaya ye game khel k ( DOTA),mujhe nahi khelna, chal kahin chalte hai!!

Me: kahan?? Bidipur ??

Nag: Kal Sunday hai!!

Me: Fir shimla to nahi ja sakte, Na paise hai , aur parso class hai!!Dhua uda aur so ja!!

Nag: Amritsar

Me: Chal! Sabko puch..

Piyush : Soja b@#₹#&@@

Sugu: Soja b@#₹#&@@

Abhishek: Soja b@#₹#&@@

Chagan: Soja b@#₹#&@@

Nag : Ab nahi puchunga main kisi ko ..

Me: Chal apan hi chalte hai..

And the journey started again @ 1.30 am. We tried to wake up some autowalas at ara but failed. We Walked, and somehow got lift. And then reached the bus stand.

@3.30 We reached Amritsar. Believe it or not, it’s the best time to reach Golden temple.

If you want to see the beauty of the golden temple you must be there @4am, before the first ray of light. Temple just shines through the darkness, and its reflection is even more beautiful…You can spend hours watching it. We used to do the same

All trees inside the temple premises are full of sleeping birds. And all of the birds wake up with the first ray of light, all together. Its the same time when Gurbani starts.

We took a refreshing bath @4am, in a chilling morning. Then took a visit inside the temple.

If ever anyone wants to visit the Golden Temple, it’s the best way to experience this Holy place.

And at that moment, Its the most beautiful, mesmerising, magical and most peaceful place in the universe for me...

SAT NAAM SHRI WAHEGURU🙏🙏🙏

Past

The mind is just the accumulation of the past. If you transcend the limitations of the mind, the past has no power over you…… Sadhguru

Past becomes suffering, only if you allow. All the leaders and visionaries told about using the power of the mind, there are plenty of books and information available about having control over your mind.

There are many people suffering because of there past. Because they cannot forget. One thing is very clear, you are never going to forget the things which affected you so much mentally and emotionally. Accept it!!!

But it is possible to live with it in ease. It’s possible to not let it affect your present…

And adjustments with those thoughts of the past is a process, you cannot expect it to happen in a moment… Some things take time, and you learn to let it go with ease. Meditation and breathing techniques catalyse the process but one thing you must gather is the courage to face it, you can run away from anything but not your mind. If you want your thoughts to stop haunting you, Face it!!!

And after all these past experiences, every time you come out being calmer, relaxed and peaceful human being.

Life is at ease, only mind is at some tension…………. Sadhguru

Nishabd

Nishabd hu , hairan hu main un yuva ki soch pe…

Jaan hai ye de rahe, is jahan ki maar se…

Ek taraf wo veer mera , sarhado pe hai khada…

Seh kar bhi taqleefe hazar, wo dushmano se na dara…

Ghar ki yad use bhi ati to hogi, chup-chup k hi sahi , ankh bhar jaati to hogi…

Par vatan ki raksha ko, wo garv se hai khada…

Aye dushman hazar , wo ek se bhi na dara…

Salam hai uske jazbe ko, tyaag hai uska mahan..

Veer jab tak ye khada rahega, na tutega hindustan…

It’s time our youth need to think, and take inspiration from our soldiers who are standing there in pain for us. And our youth, kids, teenagers are committing suicide.

It’s time we teach our kids, the difference between real heroes and reel heroes … Else they will consider these filmstars, the entertainers as there icons, and will definitely try to follow there path…

Young kids are committing suicide, people are killing their families, little kids, infants and killing themselves afterwards…why?

Because you don’t have financial stability, You are bankrupted or whatever reason, there are ways, you can’t just end up your life like that… And I am sorry you can’t murder your own kids for no reason… It’s the time you teach them the meaning of courage, to fight with problems of there life, to cope with stress.

I agree everyone has there interest in various fields, everyone is free to follow their dreams. Don’t follow their lifestyle, but the struggle. Have the courage to face the problems, get inspired by the people who truly deserve to be HEROES.

Struggle after NITJ and 10 Years @Mahagenco.

MAHAGENCO: Maharashtra State Power Generation Co. Ltd. Second largest Company in Power Generation in India after NTPC.

I joined Mahagenco in 2010,23 June. We were the unlucky batch of 2009.

In 2008 Lehman brothers bankrupted, in 2009 Satyam scandal came out. The recession was at its peak and we passed out in the same year. Though placements were not that bad in NIT JALANDHAR, I was one of few who was jobless after passing out.

Tensions started building up right after that, I tried for many off-campus jobs, Sometimes rejected in written exams sometimes in interviews. It was frustrating. I decided to start working wherever possible, I was bored with this exam thing.

I joined Caprihans India Limited in Nasik as an Apprentice, That was the first time I was on my own, not even friends. My roommate BhagwanDas, though he was elder than me, taught me to cook. The salary was negligible, but I was learning, I was enjoying the work. This experience helped me throughout my life. I kept preparing for exams. I worked in Caprihans for 3 Months, then left the job for preparation of BARC exam. Got Selected in written exam, then later rejected in the interview.

Again got an offer in Delhi, Lab India Instruments as a Services Engineer. Most of the time was consumed in travelling and I barely got any time for study, but still, I continued both job and study. Mahagenco exam dates were declared almost after a year of filling the form. Exam Center was Mumbai. And I just got 2 days to reach. I took a second class ticket and just decided to board in whichever train first came on platform. It was the most tedious journey of my life. It took almost 30hrs in a general compartment. I somehow managed to sit on the door with one more guy with me, and we crossed our hands to avoid falling off the train, as both of us were asleep during the night. Finally, I reached on time, also my hall ticket was in Nasik as I filled the form from Nasik. My relative gave it to me at Nasik Railway Station.

Again the same journey while returning, as my boss just gave me 1 day time but I was relaxed. This time Mahagenco declared results in just 10 days, and I was called for interview on coming Sunday again in Mumbai. Same journey again. This time I couldn’t dare to tell my boss, I just left for Mumbai. After a month I was Selected for this job. My boss scolded me like anything, later he asked me if I am having a girlfriend in Mumbai or What?? Why I always run for Mumbai…later, after a month, I got a call letter from Mahagenco.

First few years in Mahagenco were the most satisfying in terms of job satisfaction. I enjoyed working here. Most importantly when few people are extraordinarily brilliant you can learn a lot from them and secondly when some people are extraordinarily dumb you can take a risk like the way you want. In Mahagenco you get both kinds of people… And it’s up to you what you want to be.

Today after 10 Years I am completely satisfied with my work and job, also I will remember the struggle which came my way. It not only made me strong but also taught me to respect and value what you achieve. We were not the unlucky batch, but the most fortunate.

Bachpan

Teri ungli pakad k chalu, tere liye fir ghoda banu…

Sunau kahaniya tujhe , tere liye khud ek kahani banu..

Raat bhar tu jagaye mujhe , din me fir sataye mujhe…

Kuch ansuni si loriya likhu , main hi Tera jhula banu…

Ek naya ehsas laya hai tune, fir bachpan yad dilaya hai tune…

Jee lu fir se iss bachpan ko, zindagi ka ek naya rang dikaya hai tune…

Befikr, azad to bahut jee liya tha main, ab darne me maza aane laga… Choti c har cheez ko main, pehle khud pe azmane laga…

Dekh k ye masoom sa chehra tera, kuch dar bhi mujhe satane laga…

Pata hai har chott se nahi bacha sakta tujhe, duniya k jhamelo se nahi chupa sakta tujhe…

Par fir bhi fizul koshishe hazar karta hu, kya karu baap hu bas pyar karta hu…

Jhagda bhi har baar karunga main, lad kar bhi tujhse haar lunga main, par aage ki ladai tujhe khud hi ladni hai, kitni bhi lambi ho chadhai khud hi chadhni hai..

Main to bas tujhe ladna sikhana chahta hu, Utha paye tu awaz sahi k liye is kaabil tujhe banana chahta hu..

Maa to teri mujhse bhi jyada darti hai , din ho ya raat bas teri hi fikr karti hai… Har baar mujhe jhagda karti hai, fir khud hi fikr me roti hai…

Sehem jati thi jo duniya ki baato se , kya pata kaha se ab duniya se ladne ki himmat rakhti hai… Har cheez seh leti hai ,par teri ek choti c chott se darti hai..

Seekhya to tune bhi bahut hai hume , Dheeraj bhi tujhi se aya hai hume, bade to hum ho gaye the, par ladki-ladke se maa-baap banaya hai hume …

Tera rasta tu khud hi chunega, sahi galat ka fark bhi janega… Yad rakhna ek awaz humesha tere saath hogi, teri andar hi hogi, bahut paas hogi…

Dobara bachapan ko jeeyega tu bhi, maa-baap bante hi fir baccha banega tu bhi… Bas us bachpane me kuch fikr bhi hogi, ane wale kal ki ek leher bhi hogi…

Ab zimedariya teri hogi, aur zidd kisi aur ki hogi…

Dedicated to all the parents and their children.

Gaming @ NITJ

First time in my life I saw gaming, that too at this level and then we were just drowned into it. It consumed most of our time at NITJ and it was the thing no one of us can ever forget.

We got introduced to gaming in 2nd year. It was Counter-Strike we started with, and when you play alone you can get bored easily. But playing with friends on LAN was so addictive. If we are in the hostel, we are playing. Every time we are playing. Before the class, after the class and even at Bidipur -Uncle tea stall or at ARA main topic of discussion was gaming.

We were totally busy into CS until we got introduced to DOTA- Defence of the Ancient. Even at the college Fests, our main attraction was Gaming tournaments. DOTA and CS. There were few people who were equally crazy for AOE- Age of empires.

And some people like to do it alone. They were NFS-NEED FOR SPEED freaks. I never liked NFS though. I played Ages, but that was just for fun.. Real craziness was always for CS and later shifted to DOTA.

Best thing apart from the play was the chats during the play. I also played after college, but couldn’t continue. Some things are meaningful only with friends.

I still miss LAN gaming, playing and Chats with friends…I miss those shouts in the lobby, crazy discussions, I miss my DEAGEL , AK, Mevrik AND MAG And Still miss my EARTHSHAKER, SANDKING AND PUDGE…

Veer khade hai Sarhadon pe.. #Salute to indian army #india- china war

Aukat kya dushman ki ,jo ab bhadaye kadam, Veer khade hai sarhadon pe , bazuo me le k dum.

Na jhukne diya hai ,na jhukne dega wo vatan , kaap jayengi ruh dushmano ki , pehna k bhejenge kafan.

Khoon se seencha hai ab tak, is bharat ki Dharti ko , baal bhi banka na hoga , wo rahega jab talak.

Har gali se niklenge aashik , is watan pe marne ko, Fir sajegi ye dharti meri , dhushmano k khoon se..

Amar hue jo veer mere, zaya na ho unki shahdat, kadam bhada k dekh lena , dikh jayegi teri hasiyat..

The mystery of life… #depression #suicide # Sushant Singh Rajput

A person who has seen the ghost believe it exists, others don’t.

But no one has ever seen a god, but most of us believe.

Strange!!

A person who faced depression, know what it looks like, how it feels, how you constantly want to get out of that loop but you can’t. It’s like driving a break less car, others advise you to apply the break. Even you want to apply the break, but only you know, that breaks is fail.

Likewise, we believe in god, because it makes us feel good, makes us feel safe. We don’t see what is visible, we only see what we want to see.

Suicide, in any case, is not the solution, but sometimes it needs external support to help you, you cannot help yourself… Getting trapped into that never-ending loop is dangerous…

What everyone wants from life depends on their own thinking. It’s different for all. You cannot predict what a person is going through. Even the close ones may not have any idea.

But yes it is true that happiness has nothing to do with lots of money. Money is just a need. If you have a minimum what is needed.. you can be happy.

We go behind our ambitions, or dreams and unknowingly some things, some people, some relations are left behind… And suddenly after achieving everything we feel isolated, depressed.

Understanding the true meaning of happiness is important for everyone today, to take care of our physical as well as mental health…

And I am again saying, it will not be same for everyone.. for some people it can be spending time with their kids, family.. for others it can be getting away from the house which is filled with negativity, restrictions, or anything else.

But one thing will be common for all is getting comfortable with yourself, your inner feelings, your emotions, accepting yourself and the world as it is…

And you will always get lots and lots of advice from the people who have no idea what you are actually going through… Who have never faced depression, who have never stepped in your boots…

Help someone, help you!!

Ek gehra andhera ho sakta hai har hasi k peeche, ek ansuni kahani ho sakti hai har khushi k peeche…

Raat hai to fir subha bhi hogi, dar mat kubul teri dua bhi hogi..

Koshish hi hai jo tu kar sakta hai, Himmat rakh har andhere se bahar tu nikal sakta hai..

Yad rakh Maut se kahani khatm nahi hogi,teri maut kisi aur ka andhera banegi…

RIP : Sushant Singh Rajput and all others who lost this battle with depression